Having a positive relationship with children is importance for their emotional and social growth. You can develop and maintain a positive relationship with children by providing them with opportunities, letting them know you care, keeping them safe and treating them with respect. Here are a few things to consider.
First, make the childrens your main focus. Even you are busy with your work, but you need to find a little time to spend with them. Kids actually love to do simple things with their parents such as play games, go to the park, or shop and then cook a kid-friendly meal. The chances are that if they shop and cook with you, they will be less picky eaters and have fun with food.
Second, Listen their problem and story. Make sure your kids realize that you are concerned with every aspect of their lives. When they are communicating with you, give them your attention to show how important their words are to you. You can try to guide younger children, listen to their worries and try to teach them how to solve problems on their own.
Next, stay in close contact with your children. In this day of technology, even the youngest kids are involved in the digital world. Ask your kids questions that are suitable to their age level. Younger children pretty much go to school and go home, but you can ask about their favorite subject in school, how was their day today.
Beside that, provide the children with more opportunities. It is very common to automatically say "no" to a child when they ask if they can do something. Sometimes, you need to give them a chance when they want to try do something new.
Written by:Noor Fatihah Binti Ahmad
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